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Working with Clients with C-PTSD: Myths, Realities, and a Compassionate Approach to Healing

Complex PTSD is often misunderstood—both inside and outside the therapy room. This blog explores the myths and realities of working with clients with C-PTSD, highlighting a compassionate, person-centered approach that prioritizes safety, honors survival strategies, and supports meaningful, lasting healing.

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5 Tips for Career Stress and Burnout: An NYC Therapy Perspective

Living and working in New York City can be exhilarating — but for many ambitious professionals, it’s also exhausting. Chronic overworking, anxiety-driven achievement, and blurred boundaries often lead to career stress and burnout. In this post, an NYC therapist shares five practical, evidence-based strategies to help high achievers reset, set healthier boundaries, and prevent burnout before it reaches a breaking point.

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Black and White Thinking in Eating Disorder Recovery

All-or-nothing thinking — the belief that you’re either doing recovery “perfectly” or completely failing — is one of the most common cognitive patterns we see in eating disorder therapy in NYC. While eating disorders often look behavioral on the surface, they’re reinforced by rigid, black-and-white thought patterns underneath. At LEL Therapy, we help clients gently unpack how this extreme thinking fuels cycles of restriction, bingeing, shame, and perfectionism — and how building cognitive flexibility becomes a cornerstone of sustainable recovery. Healing isn’t about getting it perfect. It’s about learning to live in the gray.

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Lessons About Grief from Both Sides of the Couch (Insights from Grief Therapy in NYC)

Grief is never simple, linear, or predictable. Drawing from both personal loss and clinical experience, this piece explores the realities of grief—from its messiness and isolation to the ways it reshapes identity, relationships, and life itself. These lessons are a reminder that there is no “right” way to grieve, that joy and sorrow can coexist, and that you don’t have to carry loss alone.

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My Journey from Struggling to Happiness: Taylor Swift and my Eating Disorder

In this honest story of eating disorder recovery, I share how leaving New York City and entering treatment helped me rebuild my life and rediscover self-love. What once felt like the end became the beginning of true healing. Inspired by Taylor Swift’s music, I learned that recovery isn’t about perfection—it’s about small, brave steps toward hope and happiness. If you’re struggling, this story is a reminder that healing is possible, and you are never too far gone to start again.

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Understanding Complex Trauma: Healing from Repeated Trauma and Building Resilience

Complex trauma happens when a person experiences repeated harm or unsafe situations over time. It can impact emotions, relationships, and self-worth—often without understanding. Healing isn’t linear, but with trauma-informed care and supportive communities, recovery is possible. You can rebuild safety, trust, and connection at your own pace. You don’t have to navigate healing alone.

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Nutrition Support for Athletes: An Interview with Sports Dietitian Megan McCann, MS, RDN, CDN, LD

Caroline Kirby, LMFT, eating disorder therapist in NY, interviews dietitian Megan McCann on working with athletes. Dietitians and Therapists on our team at LEL often work closely together to make sure their clients are fueling accordingly to their nutritional needs. With athletes, Megan highlights that they often don’t even realize they could be under fueling and affecting their performance. Read more here!

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